Delusional Man Demands ‘Child Support’ From Ex-Wife For His Affair Child

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    Font - r/AmltheAsshole u/throwawayworkcheat65 · 9h 16 1 10 1 1 AITA for having my husband fired?
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    Font - Can't believe l'm posting here but here I go. | (29f) have an ex (34m), "Richard". Its been 3 years since we separated due to him being abusive and cheating, but we are not divorced as divorce is expensive in my country and whenever I apply for divorce Richard insists on meditation, so divorce is not granted as "one of us tries to save the marriage". He lives with his mistress and they have kid together that was conceived when we were still together. Due to both of them harassing and abus
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    Font - Now to the actual events: Due to restrictions everyone is currently working from home with a few days in the office. Richard decided to show up at my work with his kid and demanded to see me for "child support" money since we are still legally married. As my employer is aware of the situation, the reception refused to tell him if l'm in the office or not (I was) and asked Richard to leave. Richard did not and security was called. As he was with his child, security couldn't use force to re
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    Font - Since they were fired I'm getting calls from unknown numbers of various Richards/his mistress family members and friends saying I'm responsible for it and just a jealous asshole for getting them fired to get Richard back. We still have some friends in common and they believe him getting fired and loosing the only source of income they have is too harsh and I should of prevented that/shouldn't have spoken in the beginning about what happened.
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    Font - Aita? Edit: just not to repeat myself in the comments. His family believes it's okay to have several partners and be responsible for kids even they are from affair. And according to our friends in common he spreads a lie that I couldn't get pregnant (I don't want and never wanted kids) so his mistress helped us with that, but then I "overreacted" and called it cheating, so he had to stay with her to support the kid. Its the same as what he pulled in the court when we were getting divorce
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    Font - Edit 2: thank you for the support, l'm getting a bit overwhelmed trying to reply to everyone, but just want to point out few things. His family beliefs are not normal for the country and I'm pretty sure they change if the situation would be other way round. My boss is also incredibly frustrated with the situation, so he gave me contacts of his friend who happens to be a family lawyer, who agreed to help me out at a discounted rate as he owes my boss a few favours. He sees why courts take
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be an asshole for mentioning Richards behaviour and where he works to my employer which then resulted into him being fired from his actual job due to showing up in my office, while restraining order is in place.
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    Font - 1:15 4 ul 4G r/AmltheAsshole 4 12.9k 1218 1, Share I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Vote SleeplessError • 9h 3 1 Award Oh dear this better be a joke. He.asked.you.for.child.suport.for.his.adultery.kid. What the f In case this is real, NTA G Reply 14.9k throwawayworkcheat65 OP · 9h Him and his family believes if the child was conceived in the marriage the other party should accept
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    Rectangle - ChimpanzeeClownCar · 9h Partassipant [1] A guy you have restraining order against showed up at your job, made a scene and got fired. You're obviously NTA here. G Reply 1 3.6k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - Fastr77 · 9h Asshole Aficionado [10] Nta. It doesn't even sound like you actually had a role in any of this? Like it all went down with you unaware even. G Reply 4 1.8k 3 ...
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    Font - Pharmacienne123 · 9h Asshole Aficionado [11] NTA. And if I were you l'd buy that receptionist some flowers. G Reply 1 1.3k 3 ...
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    Font - LunaRivera · 9h Partassipant [1] NTA. They got themselves fired by acting inappropriately. 6 Reply 569 ...

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